that everything we do is because of something that was once done to us or said to us.
i always walk on my toes
because my dad told me i sounded like a heard of elephants
i detest my nose
because a guy told me it was my worst feature
i hate my body
because my moms always in the background asking if i really want to eat that and reminding me just how much i should hate it
i study and get good grades
because my mom once told me that she has big dreams for me
i embrace my gingerness
because my friends tell me it is beautiful
i smile
because i once read that i deserve to.
sometimes its good and sometimes its bad, but noone can deny that we are who we are because of the things that have been done and said to us. sadly, too often our logical thinking process is based on inacurate beliefs.
yes if you want to lose weight then you should workout. but you are the perfect shape and size
yes it seems its the beautiful girls with the boyfriends and the ugly girls alone. but even if you’re alone, you are beautiful
yes he cheated on you and he wanted someone else. but that is not your fault
yes people can be mean. but you dont deserve it
I guess it comes down to what you’ve been told that gave you these ideas. I hope you’ve been one of the luckier ones. and if you havent, i understand that too.
